Hello Everyone. I am a military wife from Pakistan ready to share with the world the precious moments of my life. I believe it doesn't matter which country you belong to when you are wife of a serving officer. The hardships, compromises, tears, wait everything is real and same for all of us. I tried to find posts, articles, vlogs and blogs to find more serving wives but there is no such platform that lead to uniting Military wives. I want us to talk about ourselves and just let the world know about our sacrifices before we die.
It's so painful to see many of us who stay deprived of husband's love in their lifetimes and then recieve their dead bodies with massive respect. To be honest, you can never replace a man with money or respect that you recieve after he is gone forever. You always want your man back. We are those strong ladies who support their family as well as lookafter children in husband's absence. Especially if you talk about subcontinent, women spend a spledid life. Neither they work nor they ever care to work. Husbands leave early morning and return in evening whie wives stay back home and lookafter family. Not even a single day they spend without them but then here we are the serving wives, who never know when their longing for the loved one will end.
People often question why the army wives do not mix up with civilians? Why they stay in a different attitude? Why do they think themselves to be special? Why do they love and respect each other more than other wives? Why are they like a family, closer than blood relatives?
I wish people around me who 1question such things read this; they differ from you because you have not walked in their shoes. They are always in a different state of mind. They are either waiting for their husbands to be back from deployment with "least damage" or waiting for next deployment. This is not an attitude problem but a different state of mind. Togehter they faces crises, fear, wait and quite often loosing a loved one. They live in far off areas together like a family and share the laughters and their pain. Not everywhere you find shopping malls and same tasty food outlets. The toughest part is shifting your house from city to city. Its not always too easy to get along with the area but we do. We have to. We have no other option.
This is my first blog. I will keep publishing blogs regarding military wives and specifically discuss how we are living, serving Pakistan. Please do like, comment and share. Also, like the Facebook page named Pakistani Military Wives. TIA
It's so painful to see many of us who stay deprived of husband's love in their lifetimes and then recieve their dead bodies with massive respect. To be honest, you can never replace a man with money or respect that you recieve after he is gone forever. You always want your man back. We are those strong ladies who support their family as well as lookafter children in husband's absence. Especially if you talk about subcontinent, women spend a spledid life. Neither they work nor they ever care to work. Husbands leave early morning and return in evening whie wives stay back home and lookafter family. Not even a single day they spend without them but then here we are the serving wives, who never know when their longing for the loved one will end.
People often question why the army wives do not mix up with civilians? Why they stay in a different attitude? Why do they think themselves to be special? Why do they love and respect each other more than other wives? Why are they like a family, closer than blood relatives?
I wish people around me who 1question such things read this; they differ from you because you have not walked in their shoes. They are always in a different state of mind. They are either waiting for their husbands to be back from deployment with "least damage" or waiting for next deployment. This is not an attitude problem but a different state of mind. Togehter they faces crises, fear, wait and quite often loosing a loved one. They live in far off areas together like a family and share the laughters and their pain. Not everywhere you find shopping malls and same tasty food outlets. The toughest part is shifting your house from city to city. Its not always too easy to get along with the area but we do. We have to. We have no other option.
This is my first blog. I will keep publishing blogs regarding military wives and specifically discuss how we are living, serving Pakistan. Please do like, comment and share. Also, like the Facebook page named Pakistani Military Wives. TIA
